Confident Parents, Remarkable Kids

Confident Parents, Remarkable Kids by Bonnie Harris
8 Principles for Raising Kids You’ll Love to Live With

Every parenting book has something to teach. I don’t believe one book or one method will work for your child, each child is so different. I like the overall approach of this book, which is that you need to start from a place where you respect your child and assume that they are not trying to be difficult. You need to figure out where they are coming from. This book is anti-punishment and rewarding based parenting approaches. There are 8 principles in this method:

  1. My child wants to be successful
  2. Behavior is my clue
  3. My child’s greatest need is acceptance
  4. Expectations must be set for success
  5. Connection strengthens relationship
  6. Behavior I focus on grows
  7. Solving, not punishment, teaches responsibility
  8. Good boundaries mean good balance

This book is well organized but the tone is a bit stiff.  I think it’s very telling that the writer of the book admits that she didn’t need these principles until her 2nd child came along!

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